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The ceremony was presided over by a coastal tribal elder named Thomas who had worked with the Foss trust on the ecological restorations and who had agreed to conduct the ceremony in both English and his native language, which was part of what we had asked for and what he had offered.

The vows were the vows Sterling and I had written together over the previous three months.

We had written them the way we wrote most things together, sitting in the evening on the porch of the house with the forest behind us and drafting and revising and reading aloud and asking whether the words were true.

The words we stood with on the headland were true.

I do not have them to share here, because some words belong to the moment they were spoken.

The reception was around the low tables the culinary collective had set, with the marine layer moving in from the water and the light doing what coastal light did in early June.

My mother sat beside me for a portion of the reception.

She said: I want to understand what you do.

I said: what do you want to understand?

She said: the work. What it actually is.

I said: we can do that.

She said: will you come to Monterey? For dinner? So we can talk properly.

I said: yes.

She said: and bring Sterling.

I said: yes.

She said: I want to understand him too.

She said: who he actually is. Not who I assumed he was.

I said: yes.

She said: I have a great deal of catching up to do.

I said: yes.

She said: the trust. The twelve thousand acres. What happens to it?

I said: Sterling and the trustees decide what happens. Conservation. Restoration. Research agreements with universities.

She said: not development.

I said: never development.

She said: why not?